Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Happiness Came Alone - TRUE STORY



This is my story. About the love that came alone.
Three years ago I was 23 years old and very unhappy. I had just left a rich, non-committed man who wanted to marry me and gave me everything I needed.

But one day, April 1 it was and just like in a joke I left him. There was a reason and quite a serious one. He wanted to own me. Leaving him meant losing my job (because I worked for him), my love, my comfort and money.

Another man helped me leave him; he was the third man in my life. I was madly in love with him. I simply adored him. Two months after we began dating, his ex-girlfriend called him and told him she was pregnant. He went crazy. He began behaving weird. He didn’t know what to do. Go to her or stay with me. At the end, he left me.

I cried myself out. For months and maybe years.
I started dating other men and hurting them. For only a year I went to bed with 5 men and left them in the worst possible way. I made them cry and beg me.

I felt nothing. I was the cruelest being in the world. My heart was broken and I found no meaning of life. But at a certain point I calmed down. I forgot the man that left me. He married that woman he left me for. I lost him forever and I knew I needed to move forward and to go back to normal, to somehow save my soul.

Weird enough after this so called balance, Paco appeared. I was at a bar and he approached and started talking to me. We spent our time together until 4 am and we couldn’t get enough of each other. It was hard at the beginning. He had just been abandoned by a woman he was 5 years with. 

So he was being mean to me. But I knew best what he felt and waited for the moment he would reach that calmness that I felt and everything will be perfect. 

Yes, I waited for him to go through that same hell I did, through the same agony for the unrequited love and I don’t feel sorry about it. Because now I have next to me the man I can rely on totally. I love him and I cannot imagine my life without him.

 We have our wedding planned in 3 months time, exactly two years after we met. And I think that happiness comes alone to us, without looking or crying for it. The only thing we need is to be at peace with ourselves.


15 Russians Arrested For Smuggling Arms into Nigeria



The Nigerian Navy on Monday handed over a 15-man Russian crew to the Nigeria Police to be prosecuted for weapons smuggling.

A reliable source had reported the arrest of the vessel on October 20, 2012, at the Lagos Roadstead of the nation’s waterways by personnel of the Nigerian Navy Shi, Andoni,for illegal entry into the nation’s waterways.

The Navy also arrested the crew for non-declaration of cargo and possession of cache of arms and ammunition.

About 8,598 ammunition, 14 AK47 rifles and 20 Benelli MRI rifles were recovered from the Russian ship, Merchant Vessel Myre Sea Diver, Avatiu, after the ship was searched.


On Monday however, the Navy handed over the Russians and  the recovered arms to the Nigeria Police.

The crew was formally handed over to the men of the Special Fraud Unit,  Force Criminal Investigation Department at the Western Naval Command, Apapa, Lagos.

Commanding Officer, NNS Beecroft, Commodore Martin Njoku, said the handing over of the suspects was necessary because the Navy did not have the power to prosecute them, adding that the service had faith in the ability of the police to carry out thorough investigation.

Njoku said the Navy released only the crew members to the police and not the vessel and ammunition.

While receiving the crew members, the Deputy Commissioner of Police, SFU, Bashiru Muazu, said the police would complete the investigations and prosecute the crew if found culpable.

He said, “For the navy to have handed over the suspects to the police, it means the suspects have a case to answer and we will ensure that a thorough investigation is carried out.

“We will also ensure speedy and quality investigation as well as prosecution of the suspects if need be. But for now, we will detain the Russians until we complete our investigation.

“So far, we have no clue as to the owner of the arms and ammunition or where the suspects were carrying them to; but that is what we intend to find out.”

Source: Punch

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

“I’m going to have Kanye’s baby while still married to Kris” – Kim Kardashian opens up on her ‘suffering’


She might be one of the most famous women in the world, but even someone like Kim Kardashian can’t escape the difficulties of pregnancy.

The 32-year-old star, who confirmed earlier this week that she is pregnant with her first child with rapper beau Kanye West, has opened up about the trials and tribulations of expecting.

Meanwhile, as Kim spoke to E! News about her pregnancy, new claims have emerged that the star will give birth to her baby while she is still married to basketball player Kris Humphries.


Personal drama: It has been alleged that Kim Kardashian will still be married to Kris Humphries when she gives birth to her first child with Kanye West in June-time


As they were: Despite splitting in October 2011, Kim and Kris Humphries are still not divorced


Despite the pair splitting back in October 2011, they have since been embroiled in a bitter divorce battle in the courts.

And now, according to RadarOnline.com, the next trial for the divorce will be set for mid-June, to fit in with Nets player Kris’ basketball commitments.

However, Kim, who is believed to be around three months along, is thought to be giving birth around late June time.

A source close to the situation told the website: ’Unless Kim gives in to Kris’ demand that she admit the marriage fraudulent, the divorce proceedings will still be ongoing and she will still be legally married to him when she gives birth.’

Since they split after just 72 days of marriage, Kris has argued for an annullment rather than a divorce, arguing that he and Kim married under false pretenses.

The source said: ‘Kris isn’t trying to drag this out, but he wants to be vindicated in court. Kris will see this through to the end.’

‘But Kim is refusing to cave to any of Kris’ demands. She has moved on with her life, and she won’t agree to an annulment on grounds that the marriage was fraudulent because it would cause catastrophic damage to her brand.’

Shortly after announcing her pregnancy earlier this week, Kim told E! News that pregnancy is ‘not fun’ and that she is suffering from ‘growing pains’.


Suffering: Kim revealed in a recent interview that she is finding the early stages of pregnancy tough


Kim, who reportedly earned herself $300,000 when she managed to fulfill her business obligations by hosting a party in Las Vegas on New Year’s Eve, added that although she and Kanye, 35, do not know the sex of the baby yet, they are planning on finding out as soon as they can, according to TMZ.

Kim said: ‘I take lots of naps. Actually I feel really good. This New Year is just about being happy and healthy and that’s what I plan on doing.

‘I wouldn’t say that pregnancy has been easy but there’s been no morning sickness. When people say pregnancy is fun and they love it, I would disagree. I think from this stage on it does become easier and funner but it’s just adjusting.’



she showing: The reality star also said that she is craving sushi though she knows she can’t really eat it

She added: ‘Even my sister has made it look so easy and it’s not as easy as people think. It’s a little painful, there’s a lot of growing pains.

‘But I’ve heard it’s all worth it so I’m looking forward to that.’

And as for any weird cravings, The Keeping Up With the Kardashian’s star said she is longing for seafood – though she knows it’s not encouraged for pregnant women.

She said: ‘I’m craving sushi, but I know I can’t really have it, so I’m eating a lot of carrots and celery with lots of ranch.’


Inappropriate: Kim also took to Twitter to promote her make-up line to the consternation of her followers



Kim also doesn’t mind if she has a boy or a girl, and claimed: ‘No preference, I just want a healthy baby.’

The Twitter addicted star took to the social networking site to promote her new fragrance but later removed the post.

Kim said she was really ‘excited’ about her new scent but her followers may have though it made her seem too mercenary when she should be thinking about motherhood.

She also Tweeted about her beauty line, saying: ‘So excited about our #KhromaBeauty products launching this year!

‘Look forward to so many things this year!’

A couple's heartbreak



A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes.

One morning, when the boy was around two years old, the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and put it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to it and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.

When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned; she was terrified. How would she face her husband?

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

“I Love You Darling.”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to put the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who’s to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know and miss out on the warmth in human relationships we could receive by giving each other support.

After all, shouldn’t forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do?

Treasure what you have. Don’t multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding onto forgiveness. Let go of all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

If everyone could look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be fewer problems in the world.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Silent killer: Nuclear submarine is latest in new fleet of Russian missile-carriers to have started sea trials nearly seven years after building begun



Russia has begun testing the latest in its fleet of new nuclear submarines nearly seven years after it was begun to be built.

The silent submarine, the Vladimir Monomakh, which is the third ship in Russia's Borei project, began its sea trials on Sunday as it bids to become fully operational this year.

The submarine was laid down at Russia's largest shipbuilding complex Sevmash on the shores of the White Sea in Severodvinsk, northern Russia in March 2006, which, coincidentally, was the 100th anniversary of the Russian submarine fleet.


Latest addition: Russia's new Vladimir Monomakh submarine began its sea testing on Sunday


Tests: The submarine is now in the water after building began on it in March 2006



It has been armed with a new missile system featuring between 16 and 20 Bulava missiles, which are intended to become the cornerstone of Russia's nuclear triad, and is the most expensive weapons project in the country.

The submarine is part of a class of cruisers with the latest generation of nuclear reactor, which allows the ship to dive to a depth of 480 meters, www.rt.com has reported.

It is also able to spend up to three months in autonomous navigation.

The sub forms part of the Borei family of ships, which Russia hopes will provide the basis of its nuclear naval forces over the next few decades.

The first of the Borei class is the Yury Dolgoruky, which has reportedly cost $770m and has recently completed its test programme.

It was was due to be taken on by the Russian Navy on Sunday.


Heavy duty: The submarine has been armed with a new missile system featuring between 16 and 20 Bulava missiles



In a statement on Saturday the Rubin deisgn bureau that designed the submarine said: 'The hoisting of the flag and the signing of the acceptance act is to be adopted at the Sevmash shipyard in Severodvinsk on Sunday, December 30.'

Another missile cruiser in the Borei family, the Aleksandr Nevsky, is undergoing tests, Borisov has said.

Meanwhile, the Knyaz Vladimir, the fourth, more advanced submarine, is currently being built.

The Russians plan to have built ten Borei submarines over the next eight years, according to the state armaments program of 2011-2020.


culled from : Dailymail

27 Year Old Congolese Entrepreneur Launches First Africa-Designed Smartphone







A Congolese inventor has unveiled what he says is the first African-designed smartphone. It went on sale on 27 December in the Republic of Congo.

27-year-old Verone Mankou who introduced the smart phone said Elikia, the phone’s name means “hope” in the local language.

Mankou, head of the company VMK, said the Android-powered device was on sale only in Congo for now, but he planned to launch it in other countries very soon.

The phone was initially due to go on sale in October but its launch was delayed “because of an explosion in demand,” he said.

Although the phone is Congolese by design, it is manufactured in China. It costs about 130 euros ($170, N26,545.50) — a considerable sum in this central African nation.

The phone has a 3.5-inch touchscreen, 512 megabytes of RAM and a 650-Mhz processor. Its camera is five megapixels, and it also comes with GPS and Bluetooth.

Mankou last year designed Way-C tablet; what was billed as Africa’s first tablet computer.


“Fuel subsidy is not working and will NOT work because of abuse” – FG




The Federal Government on Monday said payment of subsidy on local consumption of petroleum products was not working because it was subject to abuses.
“The system (fuel subsidy) will not work because there is so much room for abuse. Whereever you go outside Lagos and Abuja, fuel is hardly sold for N97 per litre. Civil society organisations are not speaking against this. They only attack the government. Government cannot be at all filling stations,” Minister of Information, Mr. Labaran Maku, said in Abuja.
The declaration came barely hours after media reports of a suit in which a chieftain of the Peoples Democratic Party in Anambra State, Chief Stanley Okeke, is asking a Federal High Court to compel President Goodluck to totally withdraw subsidy on fuel.
Reacting to the Okeke suit, key figures in the civil society on Sunday, as reported by The PUNCH on Monday, described the court action as dubious and diversionary.
The government in January 2012 had a tough time repelling mass unrest coordinated by civil groups in protest against the wholesale removal of subsidy and the consequent jump in the per litre pump price of petrol from N65 to N141.
The government, following a two-week paralysis of the system, later retreated and fixed the price at N97 under a regime of partial subsidy removal.
But Maku, who spoke while briefing the media on the achievements of the Federal Government for 2012, said petrol could hardly be bought at the control price of N97 per litre outside Lagos and the Federal Capital Territory.
The minister said civil society organisations needed to rise up against exploitation by dealers in petroleum products, arguing that the government could not be at every filling station across the country. He said the people needed to ask questions on why they cannot buy fuel at the control price.
Despite the abuses in the system, Maku said the government would retain the subsidy regime because that was what the people wanted.
He said, “Government has paid subsidy for every litre of fuel sold in this country but dealers are selling above the regulated price. We have not deregulated fuel pump prices. For every price above N97 per litre, Nigerians are paying twice.
“People are profiteering from the system and it is wrong. Nigerians should have mercy on Nigerians. We are retaining the subsidy because that is what people want now.”
Okeke in his suit is asking the court to stop Jonathan from further payment of subsidy because the process is fraught with abuses.
The only way to stop abuse of the fuel subsidy scheme is the removal of the policy by the Federal Government, according to the plaintiff in a 27-paragraph affidavit deposed in support of the suit.
But while the spokesman for the Save Nigeria Group, Yinka Odumakin, said the suit was a grand plot to deceive Nigerians, human rights activist and Senior Advocate of Nigeria, Mr. Femi Falana, vowed that civil society organisations would oppose Okeke and what the suit represented “vehemently”.
A political activist and elder statesman, Dr. Tunji Braithwaite, also described the suit as a “dubious diversion.”
Meanwhile, the Nigeria Labour Congress in its review of the state of the nation in 2012 said the year was “a year of unparalleled impunity” and that fuel subsidy thieves must go to jail.
The NLC, in a New Year message by its National President, Abdulwahed Omar, said the country was characterised by incessant job losses and unemployment, insecurity and corruption. It said that massive poverty in the country failed to tally with the growth rate claimed by the Federal Government.
Omar said, “Government will be unfair to the Nigerian people if it fails to expeditiously prosecute those who have stolen so much, and caused so much trauma and death to the people.
“We hold the view that no one is above the law in any decent society and if our government is committed to the enthronement of good governance and a corrupt-free society, they must get the named beneficiaries of the oil subsidy scam to not only refund all the money they have stolen, but also serve appropriate jail terms.”
The NLC said that revelations at various probes into the downstream sector of the oil industry showed unprecedented and horrendous corruption.
According to the union, the probes revealed “the rabid obsession of the ruling class to make the economy dependent on imported petroleum products was for the purpose of enriching themselves to the detriment of the Nigerian people.”
The NLC commended what it described as the heroic protests of workers and the Nigerian people against fuel subsidy.
It also commended members of National Assembly, particularly the House of Representatives for their positive interventions.
The union lamented the high rate of poverty in the country, adding that increasing number of families had become impoverished.
The NLC said, “Given the disturbing trend in the economy and governance in the past year, which was characterised by incessant job losses and unemployment, insecurity, and corruption, as well as unparalleled impunity, the sustenance of good governance would require re-srategising and more commitment to a peoples-focused and oriented policy thrust in the interest of the Nigerian poor.”
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culled from: Punch